SEXY AND CHIC
MAKING AN EFFORT
Before I start talking about the look I’m wearing I would like to talk about : making an effort. Making an effort in general, in life, your work and your relationships. Making an effort is very important. It shows that you care that you appreciate the opportunity you’ve been given. Making an effort shows that you’re willing to excel and bring quality to whatever it is that you’re doing or is expect from you.
DON’T BE LAZY, MAKE AN EFFORT!
One of the things I dislike the most when I’m invited to a party or an event in general is the lack of effort of many of the assistants. That silly laziness and disrespect that many people love to show to their hosts and other invitees. If you don’t want to be there then don’t be there! If you want to be there then have the decency to show up well-groomed. It has nothing to do with your own personal style or your appearance. It’s matter of basic good manners.
I mentioning this because it happens to me way to often that I arrive to: a party, an event and even to jobs interviews where some ladies; most of the time are ladies, that didn’t put any effort on their personal presentation dare to criticize me or just be plain rude because they feel inferior in that moment. It’s so easy to see when you make someone so uncomfortable only with your presence.
I see it this way: I’m not being over the top. No, I’m not overdressed. I made an effort out respect for you, your company, the event I’m assisting etc.. I made an effort and you there criticizing me didn’t make any. And because I made an effort now you are reacting on a negative way towards me; all out own your frustration. Most of the time I try to stay positive and be understanding when I’m in that sort of situations. Other times I just feel like laughing out loud at the childish attitude of some people.
NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS
I don’t criticize people base on their appearance because I know exactly what it feels to be judge base on your appearance. I experience it on my own skin on a daily basis. People that think that because I’m brown and I try dress well and behave accordingly: I’m not smart, I’m superficial or I’m fake. I don’t need to prove anything to anyone. I know who I am. I continue to be me. I continue to be happy. I continue to strive and do the things I love.
At the same time my attitude towards this lazy mediocre people that don’t know what quality is or what making an effort means and then dare to criticize others for having high standards is : Fuck off! Not in words I tell them: fuck off with my actions.
I reign supreme wherever I go, I’m young, hard worker, sexy and look even better naked. I’m sharp in my books. I’m focused on : my self growing, spreading light, following my dreams. This is my attitude towards the negativity that mediocre people try to bring into my life. Never lower your standards.
Never change your work ethic, your dreams, your goals to satisfy a mediocre crowd. If your surroundings are full of mediocre people then go find yourself a new crowd. Go find yourself a new job, a new group of friends or a new partner. Life is too short and too beautiful to waste it next to people that can’t appreciate it.
MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR OWN STYLE
I accept and cherish people in my surroundings independently of how they look. I think if your style is : t-shirt and jeans and that makes you happy that is what you should wear whenever you want. That being said if you are invited to a party with an specific dress code why not to adapt your personal style to it. If it’s a formal event why not wear your favorite t-shirt and jeans with: a cool blazer, a nice pair of shoes and bag. Why not put a bit of effort and look your best without sacrificing your own style? It’s so easy to do it.
BLACK LEATHER MINI DRESS AND GOLDEN HEELS
I love making effort and going that extra mile. No only in the way I look; I like to give my best in everything I do. Whether I’m cooking, dancing, studying or just booking receipts on a spreadsheet. I’m passionate about everything I do and it’s that passion that helps me to accomplish my goals and turn even the most boring of tasks into an exciting adventure.
Being passionate and fabulous here I am wearing wearing a sexy and badass black leather mini dress and golden heels. A combination I absolutely love for a great party. I added a golden choker and some extra bling to my leather mini dress and heels. I feel like the layered chain-necklace really gives an extra modern touch to this look. Of course it wouldn’t be an appropriate sexy party outfit without a pair of opaque tights. Opaque tight are extremely hot this party season and they’re always a fabulous way to complement your legs specially during winter. I can’t live without them!